the above statement was part of a profound sermon given a church one Sunday. Although the pastor chose to include the contentious passages of Paul discussing wives submitting to their husbands, the above sentence resonated with me.
I had always believed there was a certain code of behavior and dress, that came with being a wife or husband and that our society had lost sight of that. Not that I ever believed that I should cover my hair or adopt high collars; however, I did believe that since we had taken an effort to get to know one another, spend thousands of dollars on a wedding, and promised in front of everyone important to us, to: "Keep myself only onto him"that I should at least make an effort to achieve just that.
if the person that you committed to is the one that you want, why keep looking. Why flirt with the co-workers? flirt with your partner! Don't only dress sexy when going out with the girls, dress that way for each other. Stop "dirty dancing" with friends and neighbors, do it with your partner and do it often! IF you chose them, if you promised them, if you have made children together, they are the one; stop looking around. If you think they may not be, find out before your are married or at least before you create and destroy other lives. Get to know each other first and then keep knowing each other. They are the "one".
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